Me&My big bro...gender confusion

pix. of us when we were infants.taken by our fave uncle.

mom said between us, there's always confusion.i should be "the son" and my bro should be "the daughter".let's see our profile.

bro profile

married at the age of 24.living 5 mins. drive from mom's and half an hour from the rest of the clan.state goverment advisor. and yeah, he and his family having their dinner every single nite at mom's.

my profile

unmarried.yet.fooling around.going places.love construction.

seriously.i'll understand why mom confused.